I don’t have to lead.
I don’t have to debt.
I don’t have to worry.
I don’t have to be first.
I don’t have to survive.
I don’t have to give up.
I don’t have to overeat.
I don’t have to be right.
I don’t have to succeed.
I don’t have to be afraid.
I don’t have to get angry.
I don’t have to be served.
I don’t have to look good.
I don’t have to be noticed.
I don’t have to cradle pain.
I don’t have to have things.
I don’t have to be offended.
I don’t have to be stressed.
I don’t have to feel rejected.
I don’t have to procrastinate.
I don’t have to resist change.
I don’t have to be depressed.
I don’t have to defend myself.
I don’t have to always say yes.
I don’t have to spend all I earn.
I don’t have to hide my failures.
I don’t have to control outcomes.
I don’t have to get instant results.
I don’t have to hide from the truth.
I don’t have to hide from intimacy.
I don’t have to harbor resentment.
I don’t have to feel sorry for myself.
I don’t have to judge others’ motives.
I don’t have to blame myself or others.
I don’t have to be thanked for what I do.
I don’t have to take counsel of my fears.
I don’t have to crave words of affirmation.
I don’t have to repeat destructive behavior.
I don’t have to compare myself with others.
I don’t have to criticize weakness in others.
I don’t have to envy the blessings of others.
I don’t have to live in the shadow of my past.
I don’t have to spend money to impress others.
I don’t have to see every (or any) expectation fulfilled.
(I’m sure there’s plenty more I’ll discover. How about you? What does your language of surrender/freedom sound like?)
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